I’ve had a sort of writing dry spell lately. As my legions of TTM fans have likely noticed, I haven’t contributed a whole lot to the site lately. I have a new job, a girlfriend, and the meth empire for which TTM is actually a front. What can I say? Kent and I are entrepreneurs and we saw a lucrative opportunity. I’ll tell you what though, we offer the best customer service and if you O.D. on our product, we give you your money back!
I digress. The point is, I’ve been busy. The content on the site has been mostly driven by Kent and hilarious contributors. I receive a loud voicemail every other day from Kent that is almost entirely comprised of vulgarities and racial epithets that don’t apply to me. I’m sorry buddy, but you just can’t coerce hilarity out of someone. It has to come from inspiration.
And well, I found some inspiration the other day. The following is my commentary on a list from a website called “The Frisky” about what you should teach your sons about women. What kind of website has that kind of ridiculous name? Good question. It’s a site by women, for women. Anytime a woman writes something about how men work, what men think, or generally anything about men, you can almost guarantee that it’s completely wrong. This list is a decent example of that, although I do agree with some of what it says. The rest of it… well… You’ll see. Here it is. The list itself will be in bold, my comments will be in italics. Bon Appetit, gluttons.
1. Pick your battles.
Right on. Some stuff just isn’t worth the blood and violence. Like with Iraq, you know? After we got into the thick of it we realized, “hey, this might have been better to avoid.” Love is like that. Love is like Iraq. Yeah, that’s it. Remember that, all you single kids. Love is like Iraq.
2. Walk on the outside (closer to the street) of your female companion.
Also a good point. Although I’m not sure that the ladies over at The Frisky know the origins of that rule – it started back in the day when roads weren’t paved. The man walked on the outside in case there was mud or water in the crappy streets. If there was a splash from a passing horse or cart, he’d take the brunt of it. See that? TTM just educated you. You’re officially not wasting your time.
3. Saying “You’re being crazy” is never an appropriate response, unless you want her to go postal on you.
Hmmm… I mean, I get what she’s saying here. That’s probably not a productive thing to say in an argument, but essentially point #3 says that calling a woman crazy makes her crazy… which in effect proves the statement correct, doesn’t it? And going “postal” usually refers to really violent actions, i.e. a disgruntled postal worker shooting a bunch of people. So what you’re saying, Friksy (which coincidentally was also the name of my first dog, RIP) is that calling a woman crazy will turn her into a murdering psychotic.
4. Cooking, cleaning, and taking care of kids are things men can actually do as well as women.
True, true, maybe. Maybe it’s just me, but when my Dad would take care of us while my Mom was sick or out of town, it was a drastically different experience involving lots of microwaved food and diapers made out of newspaper.
5. Keep backup supplies of quality chocolate in the house for her to raid.
True. Chocolate is like catnip for women.
6. Buying tampons and other feminine products shouldn’t embarrass you –everyone knows they’re not for you.
Pshhh! How do they know they’re not for me?! I’m not buying that crap, like I’m gay or something. Chhh. Dumb chicks. (Seriously though, dudes don’t like doing this because it’s kind of weird and gross, not because they’re afraid people will think they’re bleeding out of their vagina.)
7. Women like compliments and gifts.
Men like beer and nudity. And compliments and gifts.
8. Earning less than her shouldn’t be emasculating.
Earning less than him shouldn’t activate the inferiority complex that your loveless father ingrained in you as a child.
9. Be on time, even if she usually isn’t.
That way you can make her feel really guilty about always being late and use it as a tool to manipulate her! Brilliant, Frisky!
10. Don’t be a pouty puppy when shopping with her.
Don’t make him go shopping with you if you don’t want to deal with him inevitably hating it. Studies have shown, actually, that women enjoy shopping because for them it’s a sensory experience – they enjoy the colors and textures of the items, making the experience very stimulating for them. Mens’ brains, however, aren’t wired to appreciate the same stimuli. Suck it, Frisky.
11. Find out what her favorite flower is.
Conceded. Good point. Otherwise you’d never have a good card to pull out when you screw something up.
12. If you like her, then don’t buy her shoes; it’s bad luck.
Sounds like someone is inserting a little bit of their own personal narrative into this guide. I feel like some dude’s name should be italicized at the end of that statement.
13. Smiling and nodding aren’t the same as listening.
Thought vomiting isn’t the same as talking.
14. It’s OK to cry in front of her, but keep the blubbering to a minimum.
Wow. “Be vulnerable, but only to the extent of novelty. Any real vulnerability isn’t welcome.” Someone is a little dysfunctional.
15. Personality goes a long way.
Trying to justify your ugly boyfriend, huh?
16. At some point she’ll be more important than your mother.
Unless your name is Oedipus! BAM!
17. You will never completely understand women.
That’s because they’re crazy. Oh, no! Please don’t shoot me!
18. Oh yeah, and no woman will ever be good enough for my baby!
I don’t even know what the hell this is about. Freud? Where are you?